Lalit Shewani

AI Product PlaybookCase 019 min read

My design partner changes direction every week

Most of these changes fall into five kinds of request, and each kind needs a different response from you.

A design partner could be a customer, a services client, or a team inside your own company.

The challenge

You’re building an AI contract tool for a manufacturer’s procurement team. In week one they wanted clause extraction, by week three it was risk scoring, and after their CFO saw a competitor’s demo, now it’s Tamil summaries for plant managers.

6 weeks leftPilot endsW1W2W3W4W5W6W7W8W9W10W11Clause extractionRisk scoringTamil summariesafter the CFO saw a competitor’s demoTODAY
  1. W1Clause extraction
  2. W3Risk scoring
  3. W5Tamil summaries
    after the CFO saw a competitor’s demo
  4. W11Pilot ends
    6 weeks left
Each ask started before the last one was finished. The solid part is what got built, and the dashed part is what each still needed.

Nothing is finished, and the plant managers it’s meant for have barely used it. The pilot ends in 6 weeks, nobody has agreed what success looks like, and your leadership has already presented it as a flagship AI win. Stepping back now would look like failure.

What is really going on

So your partner keeps changing what they want. Every week there’s something new, and your team is rebuilding again. It’s frustrating, and it’s easy to think they just can’t make up their mind.

But if you go back and look at each request on its own, they’re usually not the same kind of request at all. Some are about quality, some came from someone else, and some are just curiosity. Each kind needs a different answer from you.

The simplest way to tell them apart? Next time a request comes in, ask what made them ask for it. Whatever they point to tells you a lot.

A NEW REQUEST“WHAT MADE YOU ASK?”An output you got wrongA complaint in disguiseFix what exists firstAn output they didn’t likeTheir standard is sharpeningAdd it to the working test setA meeting or a demoSomeone else’s ideaCheck with the people who do the workA step in their daily workA genuinely new problemNote it, wait for a second askNothing at allCuriosity, not needAsk what they would commit
A NEW REQUEST“WHAT MADE YOU ASK?”An output you got wrongA complaint in disguiseFix what exists firstAn output they didn’t likeTheir standard is sharpeningAdd it to the working test setA meeting or a demoSomeone else’s ideaCheck with the people who do the workA step in their daily workA genuinely new problemNote it, wait for a second askNothing at allCuriosity, not needAsk what they would commit
Each kind of request, and what to do about it.

If they show you an output you got wrong, it’s really a complaint. “Can we add a screen where my team can correct the extracted clauses?” is them telling you, politely, that the extraction isn’t good enough yet. Fix that first, because anything you build on top will carry the same errors.

If they show you an output they didn’t like, their bar is going up. “Can the summaries be shorter and more formal?” means they’re figuring out what good looks like by reading what you produce [1]. That’s a good sign, honestly. Save those examples so your team tests against what they want now.

If they mention a meeting or a demo, it’s probably someone else’s idea. “Our CFO wants Tamil summaries” came from a competitor’s demo, not from the plant managers. Before anyone builds it, ask two plant managers whether the English summaries actually give them trouble.

If they point to something in their daily work, you may have found a real new problem. “Our buyers want an alert before a supplier contract renews” is that kind. Write it down. It’s worth building when a second team asks for it too, or when someone is ready to fund it.

And if they can’t point to anything, it’s mostly curiosity. “Could it also do something with our emails?” is excitement about AI more than a real need. Ask what they’d put in to try it: some time, some data, a bit of budget. If the answer is nothing, it can wait.

Stop asking

What do you want?

Start asking

What did you see that made you want this?

The mistake most teams make

The natural move is to freeze the feature list and get it signed. But nobody had judged a real output when that list was written, so they’ve outgrown it within weeks. The partner learns feedback doesn’t change anything, goes quiet, and the pilot just fizzles out.

Get the problem signed off instead, along with a fixed test set, and let the features keep changing.

The options you have

Most teams pick two or three of these.

OptionBest whenWhat it costs youWatch out
Widen to more partnersOne partner is driving most of your backlog.Several weeks of finding and onboarding partners, with little new built in that time.The new partners need the same problem, or they’ll pull the product apart.
Ask for a real commitmentThey feel the problem and someone on their side has a budget.Some partners will walk away.It fails if the ask never reaches the person with the budget.
Test new ideas with a quick prototype firstEach new request costs you weeks of rebuilding.A few days of one person’s time per idea, and you’ll throw most of them away.Label it as a test, or it’ll be treated as a promise.
Embed an engineer with the partnerSeveral partners keep asking for similar things.One engineer’s time goes to one partner, who may start treating them as their own.It turns into consulting if most requests are one-offs.
Scale back to a lighter roleThey won’t commit anything and the problem doesn’t hurt them much.The executive who championed the pilot may feel dropped.Agree it with your own leadership first, and don’t do it if this partner is your only way into a market that matters.

If you’re asking a customer for a commitment, it can be a fee, and Sierra’s first go-to-market hire suggests 10–20% of contract value [2]. In India, founders and investors describe repeated requests for free proofs of concept [3], so ask for data, named expert time and a signed decision date instead. If they say no to all three, that’s your answer.

Inside your company, or for a services clientWiden by bringing in a second team with the same problem. The commitment is a budget line, named people’s time and data access, or, for a services firm, a paid proof of concept in the statement of work.

PM tools to put in place

Keep a request log. Each request gets a row with what they’d just seen, about 10 real examples, and which kind it is. Ideas from someone else’s demo rarely come with examples, so they filter themselves out.

RequestWhat they had just seenExamplesKind
Can we add a screen to correct the clauses?Clauses the tool extracted wronglyattachedA complaint in disguise
Can the summaries be shorter and more formal?A summary they didn’t likeattachedTheir standard is sharpening
Our CFO wants Tamil summaries for plant managers.A competitor’s demononeSomeone else’s idea
An alert before a contract renews?A renewal in their daily workattachedA genuinely new problem
Could it do something with our emails?Nothing in particularnoneCuriosity, not need
Illustrative · This pilot’s five requests in the log.

You’ll also want two test sets. The fixed one, about 100 examples, stays locked and decides go or no-go. The working one grows every week with what they want now.

Locked for the pilot

Fixed set

Grows every week

Working set

W1
W2
W3
W4
W5
W6
Illustrative · The fixed set stays locked for the pilot. The working set grows every week.

And get one page signed off: the problem, the fixed test set, who judges good, and the decision date.

Pilot sign-off, one page
The problem to solve
One sentence in the partner’s own words
The fixed test set
About 100 real examples with agreed good answers
Who judges good
One named person
Decision date
The day the budget owner decides go or no-go
Features can change any week.
The one-page sign-off.

Your first three steps

  1. Put every request so far into the log and mark its kind. Once you see them together, you’ll know whether you’re mainly dealing with quality, with who decides and commits, or with a real new need.
  2. Ask the partner to send examples with every new request, so you build what their team actually needs.
  3. Get 30 minutes with the budget owner this week to agree who judges good, the decision date, and what they’ll commit if it works. With 6 weeks left, anything you don’t agree now gets decided by default.

What to measure, and how

Look at these every week, in this order. The first one matters most.

01

Are the people who do the work actually using it?

Count the contracts that go through it each week and how many outputs are used without rewriting. Buyers rank this above everything else when deciding to scale [4]. If it’s flat, spend a day with the users before building anything new.

02

Is the partner committing more over time?

At every review, mark which step they’re on. If they’re stuck on the same step for two reviews, ask the budget owner for the next one by a set date.

STEP 1Shows interest
STEP 2Shares real data
STEP 3Gives expert time
STEP 4Signs a decision date
STEP 5Commits budget
A healthy pilot moves up at least one step between reviews.
03

Is it getting better at what they already asked for?

If it still isn’t reliable at the job it already has, they’ll keep sending new requests to work around it. Run both test sets after every change. If the fixed set goes up, it only counts when the working set goes up too. Otherwise your team is tuning to the test.

REAL IMPROVEMENTTUNING TO THE TESTFixed setWorking set
Illustrative · On the left both pass rates rise. On the right only the fixed set does.

If you see the right-hand picture, or someone asks to change the fixed set, pause new features and fix quality on what they already asked for.

04

Is the rebuilding under control?

Each week, track how much of your team’s time goes into redoing things. It should fall after the first month. If it jumps after a senior person sees a demo, show that number to the budget owner and agree which requests to stop.

Numbers that look good but misleadRequests shipped, because you can ship more and more while quality and use stay where they are. Meetings held, because they cost the partner nothing. Praise after a demo, because it shows your champion is excited, but not whether the budget owner will commit.

Real examples

Named · first-hand account

Sierra

Sierra builds AI agents for customer service. In 2023 their first go-to-market hire, Logan Randolph, set out to find their first design partners, and two of the partners he signed tell this whole lesson.

The first one kept changing what they wanted. Looking back, Logan put it down to how they’d picked that partner more than to the requests themselves. This partner didn’t feel the pain the way the others did. They wanted to use AI agents and went looking for a problem to put one on.

SiriusXM pushed just as hard, but for something specific. They wanted voice. SiriusXM became the voice design partner and launched first. They also wanted a proper way to give feedback on their agent, instead of the CSV exports Sierra was sending. That push is where Agent Studio came from [2].

Both partners asked for a lot. What made the difference was why they were asking. SiriusXM’s requests gave Sierra a product, and the first partner’s just kept moving.

That’s what Logan screened for. He looked for partners with real pain, at real scale. His advice is to charge partners 10–20% of the contract value. A boss has to sign that off, and it filters out teams that are only curious about AI [2].

The lessonWhen a partner keeps changing what they want, ask what made them ask. If they have a real problem, their requests make your product better. If they’re just looking for somewhere to use AI, the target keeps moving.

Sources
  1. Who Validates the Validators? Aligning LLM-Assisted Evaluation of LLM Outputs with Human Preferences — Shankar et al., arXiv, Apr 2024. https://arxiv.org/abs/2404.12272
  2. The Hard Way Pays Off: Inside Sierra's Design Partner Strategy — First Round Review, Sep 2025. https://review.firstround.com/sierra-design-partnership/
  3. Is India Really That Hard to Sell To? Rethinking AI Start-Ups' 'Skip India' Narrative — Outlook Business, Jun 2025. https://www.outlookbusiness.com/in-depth/is-india-really-that-hard-to-sell-to-rethinking-ai-start-ups-skip-india-narrative
  4. Harnessing Enterprise Value: The ROI of AI — Madrona, Aug 2026. https://www.madrona.com/harnessing-enterprise-value-roi-of-ai/